Giving consequences is essential. Consequences teach kids to think-they help children learn that their actions lead to results, both positive and negative. Children learn that life is full of choices and that the choices they make greatly influence what happens to them. When parents give effective consequences, children learn successful ways to behave.

Positive Consequences

• Positive consequences are things people like and are willing to work to get.
• Behavior that is followed by a positive consequence is more likely to occur again.
• Rewards are a form of positive consequences.
• Praise and encouragement are some of the most powerful rewards.
• Other positive consequences may include special activities, possessions, time with other people, attention, extra privileges, etc.

• Negative consequences are things people dislike and want to avoid.
• Negative consequences encourage people to change their actions so that they won't receive more negative consequences.
• Behavior that is followed by a negative consequence is less likely to occur again, or will not occur as frequently.
• Removing a privilege is a negative consequence.
• Other negative consequences may include time out (away from all fun things in a child's life), adding chores, etc.